ADVISES FROM THE HEART BY THE HEART FOR THE HEART WHO LOVE

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Do not expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it does not, content that it grows in yours.

There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from; but do not be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from her heart. Remember that it only takes a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone.

The beginning of love is to let those we love just be themselves and not twist them with our own image. Otherwise we love only our reflection of ourselves we find in them, making the feeling untrue. We might wake up one day that we are just falling in love with the idea of love and just ask ourselves if we are happy with the feeling? The happiest of people do not necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the best out of everything that comes along their way without inflicting emotional pain to anyone. Happiness lies for those who cry; those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have touched their lives.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how your feel, and in the end, you regret it for as long as we have memories, yesterday remains; as long as we gave hope, tomorrow awaits. As long as we have friendship, each day is never a waste.

There are so many things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go, isn’t the end of the world but rather a beginning of a new life. In time, the scar will become pale and shiny and you will have no memory of what cause it. That is the way it is with a wound. The wound begins to lose – in on it, to protect what is hurting so much and once it’s closed, you can no longer see what is underneath that started the pain.

Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.

Everything in life has a purpose. There are no mistakes. No coincidence. Events are blessings given to us to learn from it. When God puts a tear in your eyes, it’s because He wants to put a rainbow in your heart. Let the parting be friendly, let the good times be a galley of fond memories. It is best to break all contracts for sometime looking back and feeling sorry are all useless.

If the heart is a place where love comes from, where does it ends? This question shall always remain for we will never know till we fall in love again.

If someone comes to you life and becomes a part of you, but for some reasons she couldn’t stay, don’t cry that much. Just be glad that your path had crossed and somehow she made you happy for a little while. No person is worth crying over, because if they are, they won’t make us cry. Never use your tears for someone who doesn’t love; use it to cry for someone who cares. Don’t ever slam the door; you might want to go back. They left, and so must our feelings for them. Only time can decide as to when we can forget them.

When love is lost. . . relax! It just means that another love is about to take place. . . much greater love than before.

For every heart that finds a heart, there’s a new heart that cries; for every dream that is reborn, there is a dream that dies; for every good hello you say, there is a sad goodbye.

To love is like playing a piano – you learn the rules first, then you forget the rules and play from the heart.

The greatest regret in our lives are the risk we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once. We pass this way only once.

It takes 3 seconds to say “I love you,” another 3 minutes to explain it. Three hours to demonstrate, a trimester to produce it but it takes a lifetime to prove it. Immature love says, “I love you because I need you.” Mature love says, “I need you because I love you.” Its not the matter of finding the right person but it’s the matter of being the right person for the one you chooses to love.

Funny how we set qualifications while we are in the process of finding the person who is the best for us when at the back of our mind, we know that the one we love will always be an exception to the risk. We must not love out of fear. What's more, we must not fear to love. Sometimes, the love we are looking for is right in front of us, too close for the eyes to see. So close your eyes and let your heart see for itself. Don’t ever frown because you never know when someone might fall in love with your smile. Somewhere, there’s someone who dreams your smile and finds in your presence that life is worthwhile. So when you’re lonely, remember that this is true. Somewhere, there’s someone who’s thinking of you.

To give one self is what’s love’s all about, that’s why my head screams and my heart shouts words of love. Soar through the air like eagle on flight without care. That’s why I promise to give you all my love, my life, my body and soul.

Touch my heart and you will feel, listen to my heart and you will hear, look into my heart and you will see that you will always be the special one for me.

As you close your eyes, how I wish I was the first person you’re thinking of so that I’ll be the first one you’ll meet on your dreams and hold me there until you woke up and I’ll be the one you’ll think first. Whatever makes you smile most is what I hope you’ll get today.

You’re not one of the reasons why my life is worth living, not one of the reasons why I’m happy all day long, neither why I feel alone, you’ll never be the one of those reasons because you will always be the only reason.

Don’t cry over things that could have been because the things that could be are far more important.

Its often times hard to forget someone we love because deep inside me us it’s the last thing we would ever want to do. It’s not better to have the person you love right now, but have them later that to be with them now and lose them forever. Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you still feel you can take it. Never say you don’t love that person anymore when you can’t let go.

It breaks my heart to see you happy with someone else but it breaks my heart more to see you unhappy with me. There would come a time when we need to stop loving someone not because that person has started hating us but because we found out that they will be happier if we let them go.

A sad thing in life is, you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

Do me a favor, go outside and find the star that shines so bright and make a wish on it because it might come true. The last time I tried it. . . I met you.

Squall Lionheart

14 February 2008