Is there such thing as COOL-OFF?

Well is there such thing as cool-off? Ikaw, nakipag cool-off ka na ba sa mga previous relationships mo? Well, kung ganun... anong nangyari? Did you guys felt is worthy... I mean to give time to think about it? Sa mga girls, siguro gusto ninyong mag Astronaut... What? You're asking me kung bakit nasali ang Astronaut sa topic na ito? Well ano ba ang kadalasang rason ninyo kung makikipagCOOL-OFF kayo sa isang guy? Hindi ba you need SPACE? Kung ganun, e 'di gusto nga ninyong mag Astronaut! Just kidding...

But seriously, if you need space... then why make it up to a point that you have to say "Cool Off muna tayo... di ba kasi pag sinabing cool off muna e halos parang break na rin kayo... oo, hindi pa kayo nun break... but the only difference between cool off aside from its spelling is the fact that the two of you are in doubt on your feeling towards each other... it could either nagkakasawaan na kayo or even may konting tampuhan lang... but come on... why make it more complicated... kasi naman... cool off nga kayo pero darating din ang panahon na mag hihiwalay din... then why prolong it di ba? Pero on the other hand... mayroon din namang mga tao na kapag sinabing cool off eh talagang pinagiisipan lang nila kung tama pa ba ang maging sila... and in the end... nagkakabalikan pa rin naman...

But more often than not, e naghihiwalay na... kasi naman... yung ibang mga guys diyan... hindi na makapag hintay sa girl at naghahanap na agad ng kapalit...

Well, ewan ko lang sa inyo kung maniniwala kayo sa mga sasabihin ko pero for me, I don't beleive on cool-off... if you need time to think about your situation... mag break muna kayo para naman you'll have the chance for another relationship with others... by then lang kasi ninyo malalaman kung ano ang naging kulang or kamalian ninyo... or better yet, ma realize na ninyo na mahal pa rin ninyo ang isa't isa... yun nga lang... dagdag problema na naman kasi may isang tao na naman kayong masasaktan... buti kung open kayo sa isa't isa...

Nakakalito ba? Sorry ha kasi kahit ako e medyo nalilito din... Well... comments are welcome...

Squall Leonhart

What if LOSER and lover mo?

What if sour loser ang lover mo? I mean yung tipong JOLOGS kasama, yung tipong TANGA, yung tipong MAHIRAP pa sa daga, yung tipong NAGTAGO nung maghasik ng kaguwapuhan at kagandahan ang Diyos sa mundo... what if... what if... Lover mo ang tinutukoy ko? Ano ba ang gagawin mo? Kung may lover kang ganyan, pero what if nililigawan ka pa lang niya o nililigawan (A/N may lalaki pa bang nanliligaw sa loser?) mo pa lang?
Isa-isahin natin ang mga facts about this one...

BOBONG LOVER
Bobo not to the sense na mahina siya sa Math, Science or other subject but bopols to the sense na walang kalatuy’latuy na kasama, walang sense of humor, boring kasama… yung parang uto-uto… well mga kapatid, ganito yan, you should not judge them kasi walang bobong tao… kung sakaling “ganun” man ang lover mo, then I think you should encourage him/her to work for it… I mean, yung maging updated naman sa mga happenings sa mundo kasi malay mo, ang pagkakaalam pa rin nung boy/girl eh si Diosdado Macapagal pa rin ang pangulo porket Macapagal din si GMA… kung talagang mahal ka nung tao, give him/her a chance to prevail over that connotation… all you have to do is give them some space…

POOR LOVER
Poor, yung pagnagdidate kayo eh pinaglalakad ka, pinapasakay sa PADYAK, or even sa kalesa, or worst, sa kotse niyang panahon pa ng hapon… o baka iniisip mo kung may maipapakain ba siya sa iyo? Maalagaan ka ba niya? Kapatid, kung mahirap man siya, at kung sakaling maging kayo nga, huwag mong isisi sa kanya kung maghirap man kayo in the future, you two shoul help each other na makaahon sa kahirapan… tandaan mo na ang lahat ay parang gulong ng buhay… malay mo, three years from now eh manalo siya sa LOTTO!?!

PANGIT NA LOVER
And so kung pangit siya? Haller, pede na yang iparetoke kay VICKY BELO noh!?!?!?! And you should be thankful kung pangit siya kasi kahit paano eh sigurado kang tapat siyang magmahal, bakit ko yun nasabi, ganito yun, (1) sino ba naman ang magtitiyaga sa taong pangit kungdi ikaw lang, (2)Wala kang kaagaw (3) Hindi mangangahas na mag two timer or three timer (kung may pumatol) kasi pag nalaman mo, siyempre hihiwalayan mo, so result nun eh GOODBYE LOVELIFE!!! Ehehehe!!!!

But seriously, my friends, ganito kasi yan… once your in a relationship, as I’ve said from my previous Bulletin, you should not expect for the best but rather expect for the worst from it… Don’t make any standards in love ‘cause if you do, then you’ll find it hard to find the right person for you… I mean, nobody’s perfect… lahat tayo ay may mga pagkukulang, kung hindi man sa yaman, katalinuhan or even sa kagandahan/kakisigan… I think you should ask yourself kung ano ba talaga ang hinahanap mo, Boyfriend/Girlfriend o “ACCESSORIES”?

Another thing, in this case, kalimutan mo ang pagiging open mo sa lahat ng bagay na nakikita mo, kasi baka nakakalimutan mo nang TUMINGIN SA SALAMIN… bakit, matalino ka ba? Guwapo/maganda ka ba? Mayaman ka ba? Then why judge them?

And once you fall in love, dapat tanungin mo sarili mo, “Mahal ko ba ang taong ito dahil kailangan ko, o kailngan ko ito kaya mahal ko?” Kung masagot mo na ito, then it’s the time to tell yourself that you really fell in love…

Squall Leonhart

Comments are welcome...

As I sit here, still waiting

I'm sitting here alone in my room, looking at the emptiness of my room... I have nothing in my but only one person, waiting for a simple message that often touch my heart... I still wonder... lonely as a cloud... bluer than blue...

To the girl I love, hope that time will come that you find enough strenght to say I LOVE YOU instead of SAME TO YOU...

On Valentines Day, hope that I'll be your Valentine and someday, somehow, we'll be celebrating this special event together...

Don't ask me why

What is this i'm feelin'
I just can't explain
When you're near,
I'm not just the same.
I try to hide it,
Try not to show it.
It's crazy
It could'nt be

CHORUS
I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in
And i'm fallen in love
I fin'lly know
How it feels

When you said hello,
I look in your eyes.
Suddenly, I felt good inside.
Is this really happ'nin?
Or am I just dreaming?
I guess, it's true.
I can't believe

I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in.
And I'm fallen in love
I fin'lly know how it feels
So this is love..

Doesn't matter where I am,
Thoughts of you still linger in my mind
No matter what time of day
I've really, really
Fallen for you...

I've fallen for you
Finally, my heart gave in.
And I'm fallen in love
I fin'lly know how it feels
So this is love..

Note: Don't you dare to ask me why cause even I dont know why... All I know is that im feeling blue today... maybe because I'm not feeling good or maybe because of the GIRL at my back that I know... I try my best to be as firm as I could be, pretend that I can'tr hear their conversation nor see their actions... but as time pass by, I realized that it would be hard to pretend to feel something that you dont. I love her... jealousy... maybe... but hey, you can't blame me cause thats what I truly feel about her... in the short time that we had spent with each other, I felt the connection and butterflies in my stomach... Is this really love? Or am I just enjoying her company? Or am I just inlove with the idea of love? Whatever would be the answer, I am sure that in my heart, I already reserved a special place for her... Hoping that someday it would be YOU and I!!!!

You know who you are... you might be the one... but remember that I will always love you no matter what happen! And thats a promise that I would keep!

Entry No 10 for IRIS

I wanna touch your face while saying this, "I know that you're not mine but my heart says that I'm yours. I can't even hold you this time and tell you how much I love you, but you know I really do love you, so much, hoping the right time will come for us to be together, so can say again this words to you, I LOVE YOU!!!